We all do it. The moment we form a critical opinion about a colleague, it’s like wearing tinted glasses. Suddenly, every action they take seems to reinforce our negative view.
But what if we’re missing half the story ?
Shift your perspective: What is this person good at ? What do others admire about them ? You may find that the same traits that frustrate you—like assertiveness, attention to detail, or persistence—are also the ones driving results.
Seek the positives. It won’t just transform your perspective—it will transform your relationships. Don’t just tolerate differences, learn from them.
Who in your workplace have you formed a critical opinion about ?
What positive trait can you recognize in a difficult colleague today ?